Many of us remain mentally fit and able to take care of our own affairs for as long as we live. Others, however, may develop cognitive impairments were they are unable to make an informed decision because they cannot appreciate the consequences.  In nearly every state, family or close friends automatically have the right to make decisions for an incapacitated loved one.  Most New Yorkers don't realize that in our state we do not have an automatic right to make medical, financial or other critical decisions for our incapacitated loved ones.  

In order for your friends or family members to assist you with medical decisions, New York law requires that you sign a paper document, called a Health Care Proxy, in front of two witnesses to authorize another person to represent you with your medical needs.   

3 Important Reasons for Having a Health Care Proxy:  

• Ensure that your wishes about medical treatments, pain management and other important health concerns are honored by doctors and health care institutions.
• Avoid painful emotional dilemmas and family conflicts over how an individual should face health care decisions or end of life issues.
• Receive higher quality medical care because your Proxy has the right to review your medical information and ensure your plan of care is being followed.  

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 Click here to download a New York State Health Care Proxy Form