Unpaid caregivers are the foundation of the long term care system in our country. Like community caregivers, the families and friends of those in residential care are also caregivers who monitor, advocate and often provide basic services to their loved ones living in understaffed facilities. Support for caregivers is critically important to meet the needs of older New Yorkers, whether they are 'aging in place' or require the services provided by a residential setting.
Being a caregiver can be challenging and can create physical, emotional and financial strains on a caregiver. Some tips for caregivers:
- Take breaks
- Find others like yourself
- Recognize the warning signs of stress and depression
- Get training
- Accept offers to help you
If it becomes necessary to place a loved one in a nursing home, there are ways to stay involved and make sure your family member/friend is receiving appropriate care. New York State Department of Health regulations mandate a regular opportunity for the resident, and a relative or close friend, to meet with nursing home staff to discuss the resident's plan of care. At this Comprehensive Care Plan Meeting, designated nursing home staff, with participation from the resident and family, set clear goals for the resident's care and assign responsibility for meeting those goals. The first meeting must take place within the first 21 days following admission to the nursing home, and yearly thereafter, or sooner if the resident's condition significantly changes.
Residents and family members who have good communication with staff and understand the services that will be provided as outlined in the Comprehensive Care Plan, generally have an easier time adjusting to and feeling comfortable at the nursing home.
Becoming a member of a nursing home Family and Friends Council is also a way for a family member or friend to monitor care and work to improve care for all residents.
Caregiver support groups can offer emotional support and an outlet for expressing feelings and frustrations associated with providing care for a loved one. Click on Support Groups for more information.
